Vision for Mindful Wedding Planning: Making Quality Support Accessible to All
Wedding planning has long been associated with luxury, opulence, and exclusivity. In many cases, the notion of a meticulously planned wedding evokes images of extravagant budgets and large-scale events. However, the essence of a meaningful wedding goes beyond lavish decor and high price tags. It centers on the couple's commitment to each other, their values, and their shared future.
A values-based wedding planning approach not only reflects the couple's unique identity but also fosters a deeper connection with their loved ones and creates a memorable experience. Our goal at Tapestry is to make quality wedding planning support accessible to all, regardless of financial circumstances.
Personal Commitment to Public Service.
The foundation of my vision with Tapestry is my personal dedication to public service. Helping others has been my guiding principle since childhood: at 12 years old, I new I wanted a life in public service. I have pursued a "helper career" throughout my life. This can take many shapes: from nursing to teaching, from consulting to volunteering, from mentorship to therapy, the list goes on.
My career has gone from a BA in International Studies to a Masters of Public Administration; from research in social capital and information literacy to volunteering in nonprofit program management and public health initiatives; from yoga studio and community management to teacher training leadership and teacher development. This breadth of experience has equipped me with the knowledge and understanding to tackle the various challenges and opportunities couples face during wedding planning. It has strengthened my ability to center couples and their values; build capable teams and empower diverse stakeholders; prioritize accessibility in my project management and problem solving approach; and care for community and foster transformative shared experiences.
Aligning Wedding Planning with Values.
Over the last decade, the focus has been on supporting couples who are launching their marriage legacy with intention and alignment to their values. This includes:
Financial Literacy: Helping couples navigate wedding planning with an awareness of budgeting and prioritizing spending.
Supporting BIPOC-Owned Businesses: Encouraging couples to work with diverse vendors and suppliers.
Inclusion and Celebration of LGBTQIA+ Community: Ensuring that all couples feel welcome, seen, and represented in their wedding planning.
Sustainable Practices: Advocating for environmentally conscious choices to minimize the ecological impact of weddings.
Acknowledgment of Stolen Land: Recognizing and respecting the Indigenous heritage of the land on which weddings take place.
Part of our values is creating a line of products meant to help couples in an array of budgets, stages, and involvement. There are products for everyone including budgets, design guides, coordinating guides and more. Learn more about our Tapestry Touch Line!
Power of Intentional Choices.
Weddings are a series of choices, and how couples allocate their resources speaks volumes about their values. Mindful wedding planning encourages couples to be intentional in every aspect of their wedding, from choosing vendors to deciding on decor. This deliberate approach reflects the couple's shared vision and supports broader social and environmental causes.
We vote with our dollar when it comes to weddings and take our vote seriously. While I help my couples uphold their values for their events, I walk the walk in what I create at Tapestry. I adore the couples I work with in year-long planning relationships, but I know that approach is not the best fit for all couples, nor is it financially accessible to many.
Tapestry Touch Line: Resources for All.
To make quality wedding planning support more accessible, a growing library of resources has been developed. The Tapestry Touch line offers a range of downloadable products that combine introspection, advice, and practical tools to guide couples through key planning milestones. They have been developed over years of working with couples, guiding them through planning milestones and roadblocks, and leveraging values-based conversations to create the path forward.
Examples of Tapestry Touch Resources
Wedding Planning Guides: Step-by-step plans that help couples navigate the complexities of wedding planning, including budgeting, design, and coordination.
Budgeting Tools: Templates and advice to help couples manage their finances while staying true to their values.
Vendor Selection Guides: Resources to assist couples in choosing vendors who align with their ethical and social priorities.
We are building this library so that you can purchase and download what you need, when you need it, and get access to professional, progressive wedding planning advice on demand.
A Marriage Legacy Rooted in Intention.
Your wedding day is the beginning of your marriage legacy, a legacy that you, as a couple, are uniquely building. It's a moment where you will be open, present, and emotionally invested in the fullness of your relationship. You have the power to recognize your commitment as gracefully and abundantly as you desire, and to mark a significant shift within your relationship. This is your moment, and we are here to cheer you on.
As you begin your wedding planning journey, remember that you have a wealth of resources at your disposal. These resources are here to guide you in creating a wedding that truly reflects your values and sets the stage for a meaningful marriage. We are privileged to be part of your journey and are here to support you every step of the way.