OFFICIANT


We live for the marriage ritual.

It is the heart of your commitment to a lifetime of partnership.

 
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the heart of your commitment

We believe that marriage is a reflection of your unique soul signatures and should be written as such.

A modern marriage is a beautiful choice and has unique meaning for each relationship. Our priority is to “get you” equally and intimately. We create a custom kick-off to your marriage legacy that reflects who you are as individuals, how you love as a family, and what you are committed to in your adventures to come. Our process enables us to capture what makes your bond unique and treasured. Our authenticity invites the participation and loving support of all who stand in witness to support you. Our purpose is to put words to your culture as a couple.

Ready to chat with someone who gets that you aren’t a one-size-fits-all couple? Someone who won’t fit you into a prescriptive ceremony? Someone who will meet your families just as easily as scale mountains to do the darn thing? Then let’s get cooking.

 

WHO YOU ARE:

  • You are part of a partnership where both of you want to plan this ceremony together. This celebration is not centered on one partner’s vision. This event is about showing up for the process and product as loving equals.

  • You are clear about the bigger picture and know what you want this ceremony to feel like. You may be unclear about the details and want someone who will provide leadership and structure to build your unique moment of commitment.

  • You want to play a role in the creation of the ceremony. You are both excited to do some deep work, including reflecting and writing about your thoughts, feelings, and relationship. You know that your participation is what makes the difference between any ceremony and your ceremony.

  • You want a steady, spacious creation process over an healthy timeline because throwing things together at the last minute isn’t any fun.

  • You want the experience of tying the knot to feel like home.

  • You want your day to be focused on connection, leaving all stress over the details in the dust.

  • You are great at advocating for your needs and communicating them out loud.

WHO YOU ARE NOT:

  • You are NOT looking for someone to execute a script or a "short and sweet" formality. Instead, you are looking for a collaborator to build a ceremony that matches who you and your partner are today, in the real world.

  • You are NOT seeking out an Instagrammable moment. Certainly, your photos are going to look really freaking awesome. But the priority for you is the experience over the images. You are planning this event and this ceremony for the lived memories, not the freeze-frame photos.

  • You are NOT someone that leaves projects to the last minute. This is truly a collaborative process and we work best with couples who like regular check-ins, guidance, and homework to move the process forward.

  • You do NOT throw money at problems. The nuance of ceremony and bringing people together is a complex and rewarding endeavor. You are a couple that wants to be a part of the team.

  • You are NOT exclusively a couple looking for an adventure wedding or elopement officiant. While you may be passionate about the outdoors, you want a ceremony that is more than just the scenery in your photos. We work in unique and meaningful spaces that may or may not take the shape of an outdoor venue and are equipped to show up in all environments.

 
 
 

MEET OuR OFFICIANT

KATE FAORO WRIGHT

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I started officiating in 2017 when Tapestry was a part-time elopement planning business. I had couples connect deeply with me in the planning process. Some of those connections led my couples to ask whether I would officiate for them. Being deeply honored by the ask, and knowing their vision so well, I embarked on the journey of figuring out how I would put their love and their story to words.

Fast forward all these years and I could not be happier that I said, “Yes”. It has been an absolute delight to connect richly with couples, to help them externalize what this day and this commitment means to them, and to generate a one-of-a-kind ceremony that honors their love and support system. Each ceremony leaves me with new friends who feel seen and understood for the love that matters most to them and that is the juice!

Learn more about Kate

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Starting at $750

DAY OF OFFICIANT

CRAFT YOUR STORY

We consult with you to create a custom ceremony that captures what makes you unique: your story, your quirks, your talents, your ambitions, and the little rituals that say a lot about your love. We walk through an interactive editing process to refine the details, then show up all smiles to share with your loved ones.

Starting at $1,100

OFFICIANT + REHEARSAL

ADD A REHEARSAL

We include all the services in our celebrant package plus leadership during your rehearsal the day prior. If you are looking for someone to set the tone and guide your practice session before your big day, you can count on us!

Starting at $1,200

OFFICIANT + MINDSET

MORNING MINDFULNESS

If you want to start your day off with a clear head and grounded energy, then this is the option for you. We create a custom yoga or meditation practice for your loved ones, then give big hugs before we get dressed and proceed to the ceremony.

 
 

 

VOW WRITING WORKSHOP

Starting at $19

Are you a little stuck writing your vows? Don’t worry—it’s so normal! We made a vow writing workshop for the tongue-tied lovers who need a little help finding their words.

 

All of our Celebrant Packages include…

Two client consultations / Two ceremony drafts / Travel within the City of Seattle

 
 
 

Steve and Breanna’s epic elopement ceremony at Red Top Lookout, ancestral lands of the Yakama and Wenatchi peoples, as captured by Emerald Media.

Andy and Danyel’s romantic ceremony at Artist Point, ancestral lands of the Nooksack, Coast Salish, and Nlaka’pamux peoples, as captured by Emerald Media.

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