WEDDINGS: LARGE + INTIMATE


events with soul.

We are passionate about celebrating your story and your community.

 
 
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We ARE YOUR guideS

We guide you to choose the traditions that feel right according to your values and culture. We help you navigate the space of weddings with authenticity, efficiency, and meaning. We want your celebration to focus on joyous and sincere connection. Our commitment is that you take your first steps into marriage with confidence and joy.

 
 

 WHO YOU ARE:

  • You are part of a partnership where both of you want to plan this event together. This event is not centered on one partner’s vision. This event is about showing up for the process and product as loving equals.

  • You are clear about the bigger picture and know what you want this event to feel like. You may be unclear about the details and certainly don’t want to get lost in them. You want your day to be focused on connection, leaving all stress over the details in the dust.

  • You want a steady, spacious planning process over an expansive timeline because throwing things together at the last minute isn’t any fun.

  • You are relieved to not be a planner in this part of your life and are thrilled to have someone lead this process for you.

  • You want the experience of tying the knot to feel like home. You want a planner who takes care to know you and your values and who can build a custom concept with your passion, love, and quirks at the center.

  • You are great at advocating for your needs and communicating them out loud. The single most important thing to make or break your day is your ability to communicate with our team. You are ready and willing to lean into needs-based communication.

  • You are supported elsewhere. You have a robust support network via ride-or-dies, family, therapists, counselors, and the like because weddings can kick up a lot of dust.

  • You are a fierce lover of the great outdoors, sustainability, and enveloping guests in that passionate experience.

WHO YOU ARE NOT:

  • You are NOT looking for someone to execute your “dream day” or “fairytale wedding.” Instead, you are looking for a collaborator to build out a vision that matches who you and your partner are today, in the real world.

  • You are NOT invested in the performance of a wedding, but are instead invested in creating the conditions for calm, joyful connection with your community.

  • You are NOT seeking out an Instagrammable moment, chasing trends, or pursuing a “brand” of wedding. Certainly, your photos are going to look really freaking awesome when you work with us. But the priority for you is the experience over the images. You are planning this event for the lived memories, not the freeze-frame pictures.

  • You are NOT beholden to stakeholders outside of your partnership, such as well meaning in-laws or family members. We make magic when we create the couple’s vision, and we don’t allow experience hijackers into our working relationship.

  • You are NOT someone that leaves projects to the last minute. This is truly a collaborative process, and we work best with couples who like monthly check-ins, guidance, and homework to move the process forward.

  • You do NOT throw money at problems. The nuance of ceremony and bringing people together is a complex and rewarding endeavor. We all get our hands dirty in the best possible way. You are a couple that wants to be a part of the team.

  • You are NOT exclusively a couple looking for an adventure wedding. While you are passionate about the outdoors, you want a planning methodology that is more than just the scenery in your photos. We work in unique and meaningful spaces that may or may not take shape in an outdoor venue.


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Starting at $6,000

THE HOMIE
HOOK-UP

partial planning + design

Do you have some of your wedding day decided but need help in other areas? We provide the expertise behind your design plan, timeline, and support vendor selections through our planning portal. We guide you on what decisions to make and when, provide an experienced sounding board for ideas, and weigh in with time-tested guardrails on your experience. We top it off with our joyous day-of coordination to bring your plan to life.

 

Starting at $8,000

THE WHOLE SHEBANG

full planning

Let us lead the way! This is comprehensive wedding planning to take the stress off your plate (and inbox), which includes event budgeting guidance, design, planning, execution, and coordination. We are your proactive project manager, comprehensive leader, and investment advisor. We collaborate with you to generate your vision and preferences, then guide and manage every aspect of your event to create the best outcomes, more efficiency, and a streamlined experience through your celebration day.

 

Starting at $12,000

THE
CAMPOUT

a destination weekend

If family and friends are traveling to celebrate, why not host them for a weekend full of fun? We have all the tools to support a multi-day celebration so that you can get the quality time you crave with the people you love most. This package extends our full planning services to the days surrounding your wedding celebration so that we can steward the entire guest experience with care and take the event management duties off of your plates.

 
 
 

Safety + Inclusion Policy

We are unavailable to plan weddings that do not consider the safety and abilities of all invitees. Tapestry has the final say on decisions that impact the health and safety of guests.

 
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